#5 What you win people with is what you win them to. Loyalty and expectation are two sides of the same coin. People are dedicated to what got them into association with the individual or group whether it was an event, idea or relationship. The decisive factor in their coming to the relationship is what they will continue to give themselves to.
I'm a guy who loves the Triune God, my family and my job. I am married to Shayla (13 years now!) and have three kids, Jett (6yrsold), Jaci (4yrold) and Jess (2yrold). I serve with some awesome people (Two14 Network) reaching out to the hurting. I also sell health insurance for those who pay for their own. I read a lot of technical theology and philosophy stuff, like to chill w/ my bride, play with my kids, lift weights (sometimes), and own 6 vehicles(01 Excursion, 93 4x4 Jeep GC, 53 Chevy CC Truck, 69 Mustang Fastback, 92 V8 S10, 97 Firebird), 2 of which run.